I feel partly responsible. She was looking at his cellphone and saw some text messages we had sent to each other. She confronted him about it. She kicked him out. Now he wants to stay with me.
I’ve really enjoyed the times that we have had together. The sex has been great!! But I don’t know that I’d be comfortable with him moving in here with me. I like “my space” too.
I DO feel partly responsible. But it isn’t my fault he doesn’t have his phone locked with password protection. Besides, he knew he had a girlfriend when he started coming on to me.
What should I tell him?
I would tell him exactly what you’ve said here. He’s a grown man and needs to take responsibility for his own actions. Having an affair doesn’t mean he’s privileged to move in if he wants.
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